My heart goes out to all the families, friends and members of the Connecticut school shooting area. This is a tragedy many people will spend long years trying to understand if they ever do. I believe this is a time when everyone, no matter where you live, needs to take the time to tell the ones they love how much they mean to them, to hold them and especially the young, spend time playing with and talking to them. even if you are estranged from your family, don’t you think its time to bury the hatchet and move on? Find a way to get over the rift. As this tragedy has shown us, life can be quickly taken away. Especially at this time of year, find…